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CainPrice 2 years ago Making lt as an adult is hard. Growing up, the majority of your friends are really just friends due to proximity. They're people you go to school with, live close to, or work with, and sometimes friends of friends you meet while doing things. Once you're grown up, most Besy the people you live around Best friend to ltr work with have girlfriends, wives, or families. However, you don't want to use your girlfriend as your best friend.

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Because as much as this friendship has done for you, I think you've really done yourself a disservice in letting this go on for so long. There are probably some good practical reasons for that.

Friend, I say this with a lot of compassion, but this is something you need to grab onto and dig deep. It sounds to me like she has used you a bit, and taken advantage of your deep affection for her.

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That's great, but it makes it depressing to start out, since you don't get that right away. The reason I ask is because it's easier to let go of an idea that has some basis in reality than a pretty fantasy untested by real world Stuff. How is she supposed to form a genuine bond with a romantic partner if she's telling this other person that you will always be her 1?

Coming to terms with the fact that you might spend the rest of your life alone is something that everyone has to do. What I can do is focus on loving my life today. Find some activities that bring you into regular contact with people, and be open to those people And if you're Best friend to ltr, here's some bonus information: your religion permits divorce in some situations, so there may be a second crop of potential partners ending their first marriages soon who are your contemporaries.

I think umwhat has some wise here. All sticks and no carrots--please get me to job I realize it's awkward because it means acknowledging, in a way, the true nature of your relationship.

He was definitely like family to me. What do you want your life to be? But once you're through that grief, they're things that could bring you both an incredible amount of joy. No, I can't just "change religions", because my faith is not a philosophy or a set of values but the cornerstone of my entire personality and way of life. ,tr

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They happen as you grow accustomed to each other and a bond grows. However, the big thing about BC is that it seperates the unitive and procreative aspects of sex, right? I know it will take a while but some of these people will become friends. But I think ro worthwhile to consider each of these strains separately, and reflect how each comprises love on its own.

What lyr stopping you from doing that again? Leave the door open a while yet. And those year-olds also very often find romantic happiness in life again, especially if they are kind, decent people, as you seem to be. Have you talked to a priest about this?

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And if you have a friendship that can survive this change, odds are better that lrr can survive other changes too. We also never had sex but aren't against sleeping in the same bed if that's convenient.

You need some space and frienv to heal and move forward, and maybe sometime in the future you can be friends again, but that's a long way off, because you would need to re-build your friendship with healthier boundaries, where she doesn't take advantage of your emotional availability. Indeed, I suspect your relationship, while beautiful and supportive in many ways, has prevented you from seeking out other healthy, intimate relationships.

She'll have her version of similar feelings too, I guess. Perhaps if you addressed that side of things, you could feel more joy and ease at her finding her "one".

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They know you're good for it in the long run", or something like that. You've had ten years to date her, and you didn't do that.

Seabody, I'm sorry if my post was confusing! As this woman's close friend, you will be doing something very good for both you and her if you ltg ways to allow this friendship to change while you work on personal changes to enable you both to achieve the lives you want. So, how can you meet people you're compatible with?

Find out what's making it so hard to approach romance; this may require a counselor, or someone from your church. About your fears In your head, if you absolutely must, give her 10 weeks to change her mind and come back ready to commit, change religions, and make it legal Christians manage to date and marry, and not everyone wants kids, and some people can't have. I'm sure there are lay communities where you can live in companionship with other humans. One person cannot meet all needs.

That doesn't make it any less worth mourning. Wanting that same dysfunction from a partner is That trivial bit of physical companionship simply beats out every bit of career success, professional acclaim, and creative fulfillment.

She was clearly getting a lot of physical and emotional support from you, even while pursuing intimate relationships with other men. Uh uh. Perhaps it can be volunteering, or crafting, or a club for some activity. So that's one approach.

You're in your late 20s, so maybe meet some guys you have things in common with at networking functions. It sounds like she's saying "yes" to a lifelong friendship where you continue to make room for each other even as your situations change.